Does he reflect Jesus? Joy is a decisive perspective. Today, our main goal, it seems, is to be heard, not to listen. Of course, the most important thing should be Jesus. Find someone who can help you create a happy environment. ( Log Out / Change ), You are commenting using your Google account. True humility involves courtesy, which is not the same as having good manners at an opportune time. Is he kind, respectful, engaging, even if people are unreasonable? We live in a world of social media hot takes. Maybe you've been on a lot of disappointing dates, and the "what I don't want" list has been writing itself. RELATED: 10 Toxic People And How To Protect Yourself From Them. Our “owner’s manual” (God’s Word) has a lot for us to grab onto to help us be godly husbands. If we are really loving our spouses well, we are laying down ourselves – our own wishes, wants, needs and desires. Your email address will not be published. I recently took my car into the shop for an oil change and tire rotation. Men, here’s a 10-point checklist for us to ensure we are being a godly spouse. Her blogs, Bible studies, fiction, and non-fiction reach a wide audience. THE GREAT RULES: A MUST READ TOUCHING STORY. 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Not confessing and forsaking sin (two steps further than apologizing) is indicative of a proud and rebellious heart. WorldKnowLedgeKnow|Home|Contact Us| Privacy Policy, Copyright © 2017WorldKnowledgeknow|All Rights Received|You Can Advertise With Us|, Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window), Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window), Click to share on WhatsApp (Opens in new window). (See Romans 8:14.) A lack of patience, at its core, is simply selfishness. In other words, it shows us how to go about it, not just talk about it. They wear revealing clothes, hang around nightclubs and feel ashamed in church on Sunday. The godly husband of the Proverbs 31 woman said, "Many daughters have done virtuously but thou excellest them all." In: Relationships. Remember, honesty differs from blatant shamelessness. Maybe you wrote it in your teens when you did a Bible study on dating and marriage at youth group. In describing how the wife of a congregational leader should be, the apostle Paul wrote, “Wives must also be of good character. Someone, whether it’s you or the mechanic, should be going over these checklists. Paul encourages us in this: “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” (Romans 12:18 ). This isn’t just a marriage conversation, this is a life conversation. Look through this 10-point checklist for finding a godly spouse (or becoming a godly spouse): Finding a guy that goes to church isn't easy, but finding one that's actively engaged in growing spiritually is more important. When my husband was trying to get me to go out with him on a date, he asked me, "What are you looking for in a … “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” (Proverbs 17:22 ) As a part of routine maintenance, our vehicles need to be inspected. A Godly spouse has the ability to listen earnestly. As a child of God, we can consult our Heavenly Father for advice. “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.” (1 Corinthians 13:1) He is willing to let people go first, speak first, choose first, and feel valuable. He should seek counsel, gather information, and pray about decisions before he makes them. Be a peacemaker. Here are 6 traits of a godly man that will make a good husband and even more tips to help you know if you’ve found the right guy. Sue Schlesman is a Christian writer, teacher, and speaker who has a passion for inspiring believers. Read on to see if your boyfriend is a keeper. Joy is not mere happiness. Change ), You are commenting using your Twitter account. I hope that helps, and I will pray God leads you in your relationship. Show patience. Teaching people's life we bring nothing but we will balance